David Bingley

Who I am

“I am an Intuitive Coach and work with clients on Self Development for Peak Performance and Personal Growth. I work with a focus on Mental and Emotional Fitness… If there is a goal, desire or dream to be achieved I will co-create a safe space with you, expand upon and define your goals and objectives and work with you on creating a bigger and clearer vision and perspective. You will get a very clear sense of how to move forward and what you can do to effect change and make it happen. It is a conversation, people tell me that they get new perspectives on how the see and approach their life, family, work and relationships, they have emotional releases, they feel better, happier, motivated and inspired. They feel empowered and confident to move forward in life, within their own power as an authentic, creative being.”

Why I became a Coach

I have always been in service and wanted to be in service to others initially as a boy who wanted to join the Navy and then in reality in the Hospitality Industry… After 25 years I went into service for myself as a successful entrepreneur, consultant and brand manager… then as a teacher and explorer of the truth….

Then on the evening of July 28, 2018 my wife of 8 years and mother to our 2 beautiful children passes away suddenly and unexpectedly… and my life was shattered and I fell into a void of loss… despair… the unknown and unexpected…. 

Fortunately, I had friends and family who rallied around and carried me forward for the first month as things settled down and my body physically started to tense up and cramps set in with attacks up to 10 times a day…. Mentally and emotionally I was a mess internally… I was hard balling it for my kids… 

Then I remembered the Coaching program I had been drawn to 6 to 8 months previously and I found super inspiring…. I reached out to the Teacher and signed up for the full intermediate 6 month program…

I continued to hard ball it on my own… going through the first module of “Fundamentals”, then “Fulfillment” and after that “Balance”… all the while controlling how I release and shared the news that my life was shattered and I was a widower with 2 small children… By the time we came to 4th module “Process” all of my classmates knew my situation except for 1 of the teachers… As per the program 1 student gets picked and is coached on the module principles to showcase how to utilize the principles tools… 

By chance I was chosen as the student… I was super nervous and was in two minds as to what to do… should I talk about my wife’s passing or pull out a throw away topic and continue to suffer on my own…

As it happened my body took over… as I was sitting in the chair and the teacher asked me if I had a topic to discuss the whole room took a deep breath and waited… knowing full well that the teacher was going to be blown away and it would get messy… I felt an energy rise up from the souls of my feet and wash over me… covering me… I blurted out that my wife had passed away recently and let all the emotions and energy I was feeling take over… I was guided through the process in a beautiful and gentle manner… I felt honored and listened too… I felt safe… I felt release… as I embraced my vulnerability… and owned it… not caring who was there or who heard it… it was refreshing and empowering at the same time… the pain and weight that was released was huge… and when I turned round to the class as my demonstration/session was finished I saw that not only had I changed but the whole class had changed…

I saw first-hand about the power of vulnerability and how it not only empowers the individual brave enough to go there and face the fears and emotions… it empowers and inspires everyone else to rise up and meet their own challenges… face their fears and demons head on… 

After that moment… the dynamic of my classmates changes as other students dug deep and brought their own deep and dark issues and secrets out into the open and started to heal…

The final module of the intermediate class was “Synergy” and I graduated with 104 hours of coaching experience…

I went on to study for a further 6 months on my CPCC – Certified Professional Co-Active Coach the advanced class and along the way I was coached by my classmates, and other professional coaches as well as my own coach… During this 6-month period I really leant into my emotions and challenges with my wife’s passing… and face myself and allow myself to heal… I had incredible releases and changes in my perceptions and finetuned my beliefs and values and rebooted my system on numerous occasions… I guided myself and my children though many exercises, balancing our lives and managing emotional releases and meltdowns… I felt safe and supported as well as nurtured… I started to nurture myself again and stand tall… I emerged from my emotional cocoon as a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach with a mission… with direction… with inspiration… with goals and dreams… Knowing that I have a core of steel that I have the internal strength to not only survive but to THRIVE… to stand tall in my truth in my own silhouette… True and Authentic in my own skin… owning who I am with a clear vision of my future…

My Past & Present

A 25-year veteran in the Hospitality Industry David started transforming his life in 2008 to achieve his dreams, goals and desires in getting married, starting a family, settling down.  To bring together all of his dreams that he had put on hold or sacrificed in-order to achieve what he thought were his goals and purpose.  Since 2008 David has transitioned himself from a corporate employee to being a self-employed entrepreneur firstly as a trader, wholesaler and brand ambassador then as a consultant and teacher in hospitality before settling down to his vocation as a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach CPCC and accredited by ICF at ACC level.

“I work with professionals from the following Industries: Financial, Hospitality, Sporting (Athletes), Charities, NGOs to individuals who are entrepreneurs or working in the family business, with those who have lost a spouse or child, with others being a single parent and single father.  I have found that by working on #selfcare we can change almost 50% of the issues, #purpose, the discovery of which or realignment with or the fine tuning of takes change the next 40% leaving the final 10% for #gratitude which I call the intangible fire and the fuel that rounds us off with the perfect balance.”

My Life Purpose Statement

“I am the spark that lights up the doorway to awakening and awareness”

Let me help you find yours!

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